Toxic people will drag you down and hold you back from reaching your potential & that's the truth. If you have them in your life, do your best to change that. If you can't change it, try to change the situation. If you can't change the situation, make the best of it and don't let them drag you down. Sometimes you have to let people go, because you grow. It's not because they are bad or you are better, but we all change. Change is hard, it can hurt. Sometimes you don't want to let people go, and sometimes you don't know how.
I have a lot of mothers in my life. One of them told me that when someone does something to hurt you, and it seems to weigh on your mind a lot, you have to find a way to let them go. She suggested writing their name on a paper, building a little boat, and letting them sail away in a river or lake or some water. This is her physical way of mentally reminding herself that it's time to move on. Doing this allows for a weight to be lifted off your shoulders, it's an incredible feeling.
Yes, bad things will happen to you. Yes, you might be hurt or offended by people. Yes, you have to let bitterness go. Yes, you should let yourself grow & move on.
Let the negativity go. Let yourself be happy and let yourself move on.
Have a fantastic day!
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